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1. You have the summer and plenty of money to travel abroad. Where all would you go?
This wouldn’t be a whirlwind, tick-the-boxes kind of summer. It would be slow, indulgent, and unapologetically Europe-focused — a mix of returning to places I already love and lingering long enough to actually feel them again.

France would be essential: Paris for museums, bookshops, and aimless walking, then south to Provence for markets, lavender, and the sort of lunches that stretch into the afternoon.

Italy would follow — Rome for history that still makes my chest tighten a little, Florence for art, and then a few quiet coastal days somewhere beautiful and blue, armed with a book and no real plans.

Spain, too: Barcelona, yes, but also somewhere slightly smaller — Valencia or Seville — for warmth, colour, and food that feels joyful.

Monte Carlo and the Riviera would absolutely be on the list. Some places aren’t just destinations; they’re memory-keepers.

England would still matter, even though it’s home. London for bookshops, theatre, and long walks, and Wimbledon season because honestly, how could it not? It’s less a destination and more a ritual — one I’m lucky enough to return to every year.

And if I let myself add one elegant wildcard? Vienna or Prague. A little old‑world, a little bookish, a little melancholy — exactly my speed.

I’d also have to acknowledge that a lot of my travel already revolves around tennis. Following the tour pulls me across borders as a matter of course — different cities, different surfaces, different rhythms — so this summer wouldn’t be about chasing tournaments. It would be about staying long enough in places to experience them beyond the stadium gates.

2. What foods would you be sure you got to eat?
Food wouldn’t be incidental on this trip. It would be central.

In France: fresh bread, good butter, cheese eaten daily without apology, and pastries every single morning — pain au chocolat, almond croissants, and something custardy I didn’t plan on ordering.

In Italy: proper cacio e pepe, tomatoes that actually taste like tomatoes, and gelato every evening (purely for balance).

In Spain: tapas, especially anything involving ham or anchovies, and paella eaten by the sea even if it’s slightly touristy.

And everywhere: excellent coffee, taken slowly, preferably while people-watching. No rushing. No guilt.

3. What landmarks would you be sure you got to see?
There would be a few obvious ones — the Louvre, the Musée d’Orsay, the Colosseum — but only the parts I truly love. No endurance sightseeing.

Wimbledon, of course: the grounds, the museum, Centre Court if I were lucky.

But my real landmarks are quieter:

• independent bookshops • old cemeteries • libraries • writers’ houses • cafés where you’re allowed to sit for an hour without being moved along

Places with atmosphere matter more to me than famous facades.

4. What airline would you use?
This is not a budget-airline summer.

I’d choose something calm, reliable, slightly old-school — British Airways, Air France, maybe KLM. A checked bag. A glass of wine. The feeling that the journey itself is part of the experience, not something to endure.

5. Would your knowledge of other languages influence where you went?
Yes — but softly.

I’d feel more relaxed in France, Italy, and Spain, knowing I can read menus, follow snippets of conversation, and feel a little less like I’m hovering on the outside of things.

That said, I wouldn’t avoid anywhere just because I didn’t speak the language. Curiosity would win. It would simply change how I experienced a place — more listening, more observing, more absorbing.

This is very much a fantasy summer, but it’s also revealing. I’m not chasing novelty for its own sake. I want beauty, familiarity, good food, books, tennis, and time — the luxury of lingering.

And honestly? That feels like a pretty perfect way to travel.
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Hi friends — it feels a little strange popping up here again, like wandering back into a room where the lights are low and someone’s left a mug of tea waiting for you. I’ve missed this space more than I realised. Life has been doing its usual thing of getting busy around the edges, and I blinked and suddenly months had gone by without a peep from me.

But here I am, settling back in, dusting off the corners a bit, and thinking it might be nice to make this a cozy little corner again. Nothing dramatic — just a soft return. A gentle “hello” rather than a trumpet blast.

Lately I’ve been juggling the usual mix of books, tennis, and a slightly chaotic Spotify expedition (my music taste is still stuck somewhere around 1996, but I’m working on it). There’s been a lot of thinking, too — about the season winding down, about stories I want to tell, and about the small comforts of having a space that isn’t rushing me anywhere.

Over the next week or so, I’ll share a few bits: what I’m reading, what I’m watching, what I’m obsessing over (spoiler: still tennis), and maybe a memory or two that’s been lingering in my mind. Just small things. Quiet things.

If you’re still here — hi. It’s lovely to see you. If you’ve just wandered in — welcome. I hope you’ll make yourself at home.

Let’s ease back into this together.

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"Never let anyone make you feel ordinary."

Big words, right? But here’s the thing—what even is ordinary? Beige? Quiet? Acceptable to strangers in a Tesco queue? I don’t know about you, but I’ve never been good at fitting in a box, especially not one with such drab wallpaper.

From the moment we can walk, we’re handed this invisible rulebook that says: blend in, don’t rock the boat, keep it neat. Honestly? Boring.

Ordinary isn’t real—it’s just a tidy little box that makes everyone else feel comfortable. And you? You weren’t made for a box.

The world is full of people who’ll try to iron out your edges. “Too loud.” “Too much.” “Not like the others.” You know what I hear in that? Fear. Fear of anyone who dares to be bold, or weird, or passionate about the stuff they love—whether that’s obscure novels, your borderline romantic feelings for Centre Court, or the way you refuse to pretend you don’t still listen to early Madonna on full volume.

I used to worry about that, once upon a time. Thought maybe it would be easier if I just toned it all down—talked a little less about my latest book crush, pretended I wasn’t that into the way Darren Cahill stands at the back of the box with his arms folded and that expression like he knows your secrets. But here's the plot twist: being ordinary is exhausting when you’re not built that way.

I’m not here for it.

And I don’t think you are either.

So wear the jacket that makes you feel like a badass. Say the thing. Read the vampire book and the sapphic romance and the slightly weird sci-fi novella about tea monks and sentient robots. Take up space—on the page, on the court, in the room. Laugh loudly. Be seen.

Because the truth is, the people who matter? They're not looking for someone who fits neatly into “ordinary.” They're drawn to your fire, your mess, your sparkle, your depth. They want you, just as you are.

So tell me—what’s something about you that’s gloriously, unapologetically not-ordinary? I want to hear it. Let’s celebrate the beautiful weirdness together.

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 It feels like I’ve been living out of a suitcase since April—and honestly? I rather have. From the clay in Monte Carlo to the grass at Wimbledon, it’s been a whirlwind of airports, match points, and one too many cappuccinos on the go. Somewhere between chasing the ATP tour and trying not to melt in the summer heat, my little corner of the internet went a bit… dormant.

But now that I’ve drawn breath (and finally unpacked), it’s time for a proper reboot.


Back When I Was Much Younger

Back in the mid-late ’90s and into the early 2000s, I followed the tour properly. I’d jet off to Australia, swing by the US Open—it was easier back then, and frankly, far less ruinous on the purse. Was I a tennis groupie? A lady never kisses and tells.

Post-COVID, with travel feeling heavier and—if we’re being candid—the years creeping in, I’ve mostly stuck to a handful of clay court tournaments in Europe. But this year? I’ve not gallivanted quite like this in decades, and it’s been glorious fun.


Life on Tour: The Real, Beautiful Chaos

Monte Carlo was the start, planned down to the last detail. Then life threw me a delightful curveball: I met the loveliest Spanish couple, David and Miriam. One moment we were chatting over coffee, and the next I was in their car, road-tripping back to Spain. That turned into an unplanned escapade through Barcelona and Madrid—two cities, two entirely different rhythms, and frankly, more tapas than is respectable.

Rome was always on the agenda, though I had to tear up my flights and start again thanks to my newly altered route. It was the sort of last-minute scramble that used to send me into hysterics; these days, I simply shrug and order another espresso.

Then a quick interlude at home for laundry (and perhaps a decent cup of tea) before Paris called for Roland Garros. After that, back to London for Queen’s and Wimbledon—with David and Miriam making a surprise appearance, which was the perfect punctuation mark on an already mad summer.

At this point, my suitcase and I are on first-name terms. Plans shifted at the eleventh hour, flights got rerouted, and my main concern was not leaving my favourite tennis hat in some forgotten corner of Madrid.

And you know what? That unpredictability—that joyful chaos—is what makes this whole thing magic. It’s why I fell in love with tennis in the first place: the drama, the brilliance, the constant sense that anything could happen. I wouldn’t trade it for the world.


Why the Reboot?

After months of gallivanting and tennis-induced adrenaline, I wanted this space to feel like me again: books, tennis, and a little slice of life. Think vintage tenniscore meets literary dark academia—because my heart belongs equally to manicured grass courts and a well-worn novel.

What’s coming:

  • Weekly round-ups (Kitty’s Weekly Serve) mixing books, matches, and musings.
  • TBR check-ins, book lists, and a few strong opinions.
  • Tennis reflections and some inevitable US Open chatter.
  • Moodboards, playlists, and the occasional aesthetic indulgence.
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So, What’s Next?

Today kicks off a new posting schedule - 4 to 5 posts a week through August. Tomorrow, we’re diving into my Current TBR.

In the meantime, tell me:
What’s been the highlight of your summer—books, tennis, or something entirely different?

Drop a comment and let’s catch up. 💬

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 You can tell a lot about a person by what they’ve set as their phone’s lockscreen. It’s like a little window into someone’s heart, or at least their current mood. A peek behind the curtain of their day-to-day life. Some people go minimalist—just the date, the time, maybe a soft gradient background. Others treat it like a mini vision board: quotes, goals, reminders of who they’re trying to become. And then there are those of us who lean fully sentimental, no shame.

My lockscreen? It’s a photo I snapped at sunset on a clay court in Barcelona. Not even during a tournament—just a quiet, golden evening when the lines were still a bit scuffed from the last match, and the court was empty except for a single ball nestled against the fence. The sky had that dreamy pink-orange blend that only lasts for about three minutes before it slips into blue. There’s something about it that just settles me.

It’s not just about the aesthetics, though it is a pretty picture. That court, that moment, reminds me why I love tennis—not just the matches, the drama, the sweat and strategy—but the quiet parts. The in-betweens. The way the game lingers even after the players leave.

And sure, sometimes I’ll swap it out for a picture of someone I’m low-key obsessed with (no names, but you know who you are, Aussie legend with the best coaching brain in the business). Or something chaotic and silly, like the time I briefly had a meme of a cat wearing a headband and holding a racquet. But I always come back to that clay court at sunset. It’s my anchor.

So what about you? What’s the first thing you see when you pick up your phone? A loved one’s face? A mantra? Something goofy that makes you smile?

There’s no wrong answer—just stories waiting to be told.

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